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Happy Good Friday to you!

It’s such an important weekend for many reasons.

At Easter we celebrate the fact that Jesus didn’t stay in the grave, He rose again! I’m so thankful to have a relationship with the God who gave His Son to die for my sins and who loves me so much.

He loves you too and wants to have the same kind of relationship with you! One where you rely on Him for everything. In exchange He’ll give you peace and joy and a hope for the future because He has good things planned for you!

I hope you remember all of that as you go throughout your weekend.

The other reason the next couple of days are important to me is because we are in the process of moving into our first house!

So for the next week I’ll be taking time off to get everything moved and settled again (unless I can get those people that move the President’s things from one house to another in about 90 minutes – in which case I’ll be back Monday – but probably not).

Thanks for being patient! Keep checking in with me on Instagram @_thespiffiest_ and come back for more awesome blogs in about a week!

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Now Trending: Fringe

And so begins the first post in my series of letting you know what’s on trend and how/if you should work it into your closet.

*Cracks knuckles* here we go…

Recently while shopping for next weeks featured trendy item (Ooo you’ll have to come back to see what it is!) I noticed there was a whole lot of fringe going on.

I’m going to come right out and say that it’s a turn off for me, however, if worn properly it can be cute and add great movement/visualization to your look.

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A bikini with the fringe on top (sing it Oklahoma style) can even add volume riiiieeght where you need it *ifyaknowwhatimean.

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If you are going to go with the sway and swoosh in other non-water resistant outfits, keep your jewelry understated especially if the fringe is on the bottom of something with a pattern. I would pair this kind of thing with mostly earrings seeing as how any kind of necklace would be too much movement going on. Even a statement necklace would be overkill (in my book). If you just can’t hold back with a necklace, then layer a few that have thin chains.

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Fringe on your shoes could be super cute, but again keep everything else understated and let them be the highlight of the outfit. I would most certainly stay away from doubling up on fringe. Unless you were getting ready to attend FringeFest 2015 (which, come to think of it, is better known as Bonaroo). ;)

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The Guide to a Figure-Flattering Easter Dress

The trick to writing a guide of any sort is research. And if there’s ever been an Easter where I’ve done extensive dress research, it’s this one.

I will be 5 months pregnant by the time Easter gets here, which means I don’t know what my body will look like. On top of which, I’m in the Easter program at church, which means I have to find a dress that meets a long list of standards (not to mention my own crazy self-imposed ones).

But man do I love a good clothing challenge.

I started looking for a dress in January, just to start formulating a vision. Once I knew the direction I wanted to go in, I started seriously looking in February and had my dress by early March.

Saying all of that to say, I know my stuff. I know what’s out there and I know what will look good on your body type.

So let’s dive in…

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The best way to flatter a larger mid-section is by going with a dress that’s waist defining. All three of these options give the illusion that you have a tiny waist whether it be through color blocking, a change in pattern or strategic rouching. Those are the types of things you need to look for in your dress.

And if you want to add a cardigan to the mix, stay away from those that are short and boxy. Go with one that lays a few inches below where you’ve defined your waist, or better yet, choose a structured blazer to give you even more shape.

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For a larger bum and hips it’s all about where you’re drawing the eye. First of all, make sure to go with an A-line shape. This shape is flattering on so many body types, but especially yours as it perfectly conceals your lower half. To carry the illusion a step further, opt for a dress that has a pattern/detail on the top half which will instantly draw the eye up.

The White House Black Market dress does a great job of drawing the eye to your neckline with that lace detail; as does the JCP dress by putting that gorgeous blue color on the top half of the dress. And of course the print overlay is just pretty all over on the Fiore dress.

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If you’re looking to create a figure, you’ve got some great options as well. Look for dresses with ruffles or pleats to add volume where you need it, but stay away from anything too baggy. You want to show off your slimness while adding volume in all the right places.

The blue dress from Express gives your girls a little help with the pleats in the bust line. The middle dress from The Limited does kind of the same thing but in a cool modern way – I love the illusion of a crop top over a black dress. And by the way, this one would really do a great job showing off a gorgeous statement necklace. Finally, the navy Ann Taylor number defines your tiny waist but gives you a curvy hourglass shape with the addition of those ruffles (the dress has a tiny polka dot pattern too, which I think is so classic).

I wanted to show you that no matter your figure, there is a dress out there that will make you look your best. I purposely stayed away from using words like “flaws” and “problem areas” because you don’t have to look at your body that way. Appreciate what you’re working with, and learn to dress so that you show off what you love most!

If you have any questions or need more help, you can reach me through any of my social media outlets I’ve linked to there in the upper right.

Happy shopping!

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Spring Neutral: Army Green

As much as I mourn the loss of tights and boots (eventually…I will wear them sporadically until Easter – Shhh) I am excited about all the kinds of clothing changes spring brings.

Like this guy – army green!

For those of you thinking army green is the LAST color you’d associate with spring outfits, I’ve included color swatches there on the side to show just how far this spring neutral can go.

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Pair it with bright pink, light pink, coral, stripes, leopard, even some lighter greens will pair with it beautifully. And most of the time it can go with either silver or gold accessories (if you can find anyone selling silver anymore!). And of course it plays well with other neutrals like white, black and even taupe if the taupe is on the bottom of your outfit, further away from the green (see what I did there – “if the taupe is on the bottom”?!).

An army green jacket becomes part of my regular rotation this time of year. This one from Dillard’s at West Town Mall is a great supplement for your jean jacket. Since the days/nights are still cool at times, it’s great to have a jacket like this one that can get thrown over so many other items.

Speaking of throwing over things, I love this Fossil bag from Belk. I just don’t think you even realize how fluidly this will work into your closet. A great cross-body bag like this will go with so many things while breaking you out of the boring black box (I’m preaching to myself with that line).

I included a layered necklace from Altar’d State because I wanted to show that those lighter pastel colors work well with the darker, more masculine color. In fact it would create a great balanced look.

And finally, for the more adventuresome among us there are cargo jogger pants at Charlotte Russe. Don’t worry, you don’t have to wear these with a belly baring shirt, or heels for that matter. Pair them with crisp white Keds and a striped tee for running errands around town in the chicest way possible.

Listen, you can sit there in your bland neutrals, or you can drop and give me 10 outfits that go with army green!!! ;)


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3 Ways to Tie Your Scarf

Much like pretzel dough, scarves are having a major moment.

I don’t think I’ve stopped seeing scarves even when the temperatures didn’t call for them. So let’s lean into that fact and wear our scarves well with a few tips on how to wear them…

Below I’ve posted the best scarf tying video I think has ever been made and will ever be made. Ever. The whole video is flawless, but what I like most is how it goes in slow motion when she’s tying the scarf so you can really see how she does it. Every year I pick out the techniques I like the best and keep the video handy on my phone to watch it when I’m getting dressed.

Here are my top three favorites…

The Magic Trick:

All she did was loop the scarf around her neck one time, then she reached inside one of the loops to pull the right (our right not her’s) hanging side up slightly to make a hole. Then she pulled the left side through that little hole.

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The Twist and Pull

For this one, she folded the scarf in half, pulled the one dangler through the loop, twisted the loop then pulled the other dangler through (dangler is the best word I could think of. Does it sound weird? Yes, yes it does.)

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The Braid

This one starts out again with the scarf being halved, but instead of pulling one dangler through, you pull both of them through, twist the loop and pull them both through again.

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For the last two techniques I would suggest using a lighter scarf if you plan on wearing it in doors. If you use the scarf like she’s got (heavier, woolier) you’re going to be very bundled up indoors. That’s why it’s very important to have a good variety of fabrics when it comes to your scarves.

I also like to buy scarves with different fringes because even that plays a role in how it lays when you’re wearing it. Short fringed scarves don’t hang as well in some instances like longer fringed ones do. So try out different tie techniques with a couple scarves to see which one fits the look you’re going for.

Express has a whole lotta short fringe scarves (and right now they’re on sale). And one of my favorite places to snag one is Forever21. They’re so cheap! So even if you literally snag it…you’re only out $10 or so.

Here’s the whole video of 25 ways to tie a scarf…

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